I know I am a terrible person. I make these grand promises to post several times a week and I flake out on you. If it’s any consolation, I’ve been battling powerful migraines for nearly a month and I have finally gotten relief. I can think again! I can write again! I can sleep again! It feels so wonderful to have all my mental faculties at work doing 20 things at once, such as writing monthly budgets, imagining what I would do with 20 million dollars and combating foolishness.

Now, that last statement seems kinda weird, but I have a very familiar relationship with foolishness and the many forms it takes. On Christmas, I had to put up with the “not black enough” brand of foolishness from my cousins. While I am used to it, I thought I should finally settle everything. This led me to googling “how to be black”.

Throughout my life, I have had to learn certain social cues and ways of interacting with other people as it isn’t natural to me. However, I have done so well, it surprises those closest to me, including family, that my default setting is to be as quiet as possible and avoid people at all cost. So I figured if I can learn how to be social, surely learning to be black could help with future Christmas dinner foolishness.

I found a wonderful book titled “How to be black” by Baratunde Thruston. I haven’t finished it yet, but with just 30% of the book left, I think I can safely say… I’ve been black the whole time! Why didn’t anyone tell me? If you listened to those stupid cousins of mine, you’d think I was a racial imposter, some strange brown hybrid that loves to read, watches Star Trek and prefers Japanese anime theme songs, while also liking Nicki Minaj and Kanye West enough to have at least 4 songs each on her iPod playlist! She dares to mix Rhianna and Elton John?! The shame.

Long story short, personal interests do not determine how “black” or “white” or “Japanese” you are. Be yourself, and anyone who says different can kick rocks.



A small rant and some love for Butler

As a black woman who has grown up loving science fiction, I think it is a shame I just now heard of Octavia E. Butler and her stunning work. As of today, January 1st, 2018, I have only read four of her books: Dawn, Imago and Adulthood Rites of the Lilith’s Brood (Xenogenesis) series and Kindred. I want to marinate in these works and, possibly, write a short essay on them later, but right now, I will focus on my frustration of never hearing about Butler until now.


As previously mentioned, I grew up a black nerd. My grandfather and I watched Star Trek every night. My grandmother would almost be late for church most Sundays, due to her watching Sir Arthur Conan Doyle’s The Lost World. I was bullied for reading better than most of my classmates and I was obsessed with Pokemon, Digimon, and Yu-Gi-Oh to such a degree that I would cry that I had a regular dog and parakeet instead of a Growlithe and Dragonite. My parents would exchange odd looks wondering who this strange child was, the strange child that was indeed their daughter. I would later go to college, studying English Literature and taking a broad range of classes to read all kinds of books, even ones I would have never wanted to read normally. One of my favourite classes was African-American Literature, in which we focused on how rap and hip-hop continued the tradition of the oral tradition, passing on stories through word of mouth, like in Greek with the Odyssey or like with African slaves, who were barred from reading.

However, not even in African-American literature did I learn about Octavia E. Butler and the genre of Black Science-Fiction and Fantasy. While it may not anger many, it angers me. I grew up thinking there was something wrong with me, that loving aliens and wishing to be with the stars was wrong. Had I learned earlier, I would have learned how to embrace my nerd-self so much easier than trying to deny everything and feeling like a stranger with myself.

Black Science-Fiction fits so well into the larger works of Black Americans as it touches on the very concepts we face every day, but Black Science-Fiction has a way of reaching more than just those of the brown skin variety. Everyone of every shade of color is made an alien in the larger picture of the works and, in some cases, we must all come together for a greater good.

I hope I’m making some sense. My head feels scrambled after Kindred. I highly recommend it.

Goals for 2018

2017 was interesting: I read about 20 books. I got a job. I lost that job. Then got another job. I sold a lot of crocheted hats. I lost a friend. I celebrated my 25th birthday. I applied to graduate school twice, and I have yet to hear the results of the second attempt. I wrote 4 short stories and started a larger work, but haven’t finished. I started this blog.

With 2018 approaching, I need to write a list of goals I want to accomplish for the year.

  1. Begin studying for Master’s degree. Hopefully, I get accepted to grad school and begin my journey to become a librarian.
  2. Update my blog 2-3x a week. Monday, Wednesday, and Friday are the magic days, and I have a lot of ideas.
  3. Read 26 books. I’m turning 26, so why not 26 books. I know there are people that read a lot more, but whatever.
  4. Finish the larger work by March. I call it the “larger work” because I don’t know what it will become. It’s not a short story, but probably not a novel, but then again it could become one.
  5. Write 5 short stories. But only after the larger work is finished!

I know it doesn’t sound like a lot, but some of things I listed are quite massive in their own rights. I do know a few other goals, but they are rather personal and irrelevant to the goals of this blog. But should I think of more, I’ll be sure to list them as well.

What do you want to accomplish in 2018? Are you looking forward to the new year?

Old Story- Collector’s Syndrome (2013)

The following is an old story I wrote back in 2013 for a creative writing class. I also entered it into a contest, by request of my professor. I got third place and a $15 gift card for Barnes & Noble. I hope you enjoy this story, and later this week, I will post a small analysis/critique of this piece.


Joey’s eyes were glued on the hands of the clock. The hour hand was already in place at the three; now the minute hand had to hurry to the half-mark and he was released from the grasp of Mrs. Anne, the worst 6th grade math teacher in history.

No doubt Leo’s watching the clock too, Joey thought.

Putting his hand in his pocket, he could feel the cold, palm sized tin, full of cards he couldn’t wait to show off after school. Lost in his daydream, Joey missed when the bell rang and he found he was a minute behind schedule. Rushing through the halls, he made his way up the stairs and to Rm. 750, the 8th grade newspaper room. Normally, the newspaper teacher, Mr. Barker, was in at 3:45 with his editor and other students, so Joey and Leo had to make their meetings brief. But Leo wasn’t here and the minute hand, going faster than before, moved to ten past 3:30.

“Come on, Leo. Why are you always late?” Joey asked himself as he paced around the room, his curly blond hair bobbing and his palms growing sweaty.

“Boy, you are a nervous Curtis, Joe.”

Finally, Leo moseyed himself in at 3:42.

“Leo, we can’t be here when the newspaper club comes in! Of course I’m nervous.”

“Well let’s begin!”

Joey shook his head and took a deep breath to begin his presidential decree, “I hereby call the collector’s club open. Do you have anything to present to the floor, Leo?”

“Yes, I have an announcement! Today, the final installment of my Monster Ball collection is coming in. So I’m having a party Saturday. Club members only and BYOS, by the way.”

Joey was excited; Leo had been working on completing the whole gaming collection of their favorite show, Monster Ball, for 2 years. Now saving up snack money, allowance and random change has paid off.

“Congratulations, Leo! Now I am going to present my new baseball tin!”

Joey eagerly pulled out the tin from his pocket, but when Leo didn’t seem so thrilled, Joey asked, “what’s wrong, Leo?”

“Well, it’s nice but what about the cards? Who do you have?”

“I don’t know. It’s not open.”

“You never open those things,” Leo whined a bit.

“Of course not, we’re collectors. We preserve and-” Joey’s speech was cut off by the gruff voice of Mr. Barker and Terry, editor of the newspaper, down the hallway.

“Club dismissed!”

The boys grabbed their things and sped out the school, which was near empty except for the school sports teams, official after school clubs and general students who didn’t want to go home. Leo and Joey lived a great deal from the school, a good mile, but they liked walking home as it gave them extra time to have their meetings.

“I wish we could go to your house for our club,” Leo said.

“Yeah, but my parents always say no.”

Joey imagined his parents at home, dusting and cleaning. He sometimes entertained the thought of having friends over, but Joey knew there was a part of him that didn’t like company.

As the two walked home, the boys, mostly Joey, talked about future collecting endeavors and the future of their current collections; Leo quietly followed, talking when necessary. He was more so enjoying the brisk, fall breeze that blew into his wild black hair. Joey pulled his hood up and covered his mouth with his scarf. Leo never really cared for bundling up for the cold seasons; instead, he pulled off his backpack and ran into the park near their houses.

“Look Joe! There’s no one here! We have the whole park to ourselves,” yelled the energetic 11-year old as he hopped on the monkey bars and swung all the way across.

“I can’t,” Joey replied, “I don’t want my tin to get messed up or dirty or something.”

Leo climbed up and down the jungle gym for a solid fifteen minutes until he rested on the ground tired.

“Are you ready to go home yet?” Joey asked near impatient.

“Yeah, yeah,” Leo groaned. He got up, dusted the wood chips off his black pants and grabbed his backpack.

“Man, you’re no fun,” Leo whined.

“You’re still my friend,” Joey replied quickly.

“Somebody has to or else you’ll be a grumpy little boy and grow to be a grumpy old man.”

Leo laughed and ran ahead as Joey chased after him.

“Ha, I got home first!” Leo triumphantly cried. He had the great luxury of living a hop, skip and a jump from the park, while Joey had to walk further to the cul-de-sac. After watching Leo getting attacked by his sisters, Joey continued to go home. Everything about his house was clean; the wood floors were shiny with new wax, while collectible trains in their boxes were displayed on shelves. Lemon furniture polish welcomed Joey as he ran his fingers on the plastic couch. He could see his father in the Collecting room, carefully repairing a rare 1967 Timothy Lionel train.

For the past three months, Joey’s dad had been restoring this one train, or rather this masterpiece. Today, he was finally finished the initial cleaning and detailing and perhaps tomorrow, he will smooth and polish in preparation of re-painting it. Joey looked on quietly with excitement and joy. He loved seeing his father in action of restoring; hours on top of hours, Herman Pelter could just sit for hours, merely staring at his work in order to imagine what to do next.

Joey’s dad, Herman Pelter, had the great talent of bringing things back to life. His primary job was restoring cars for Mr. Walter, a gentleman that lived across town. He collects antique cars that, after restoration, will be shown off and various car shows and auctions. Mr. Pelter loved his job and Mr. Walter loved his work so much that he gave Herman the option of keeping whichever car he wanted.

However, no matter how much Mr. Pelter loved his cars, the trains were his babies. There were times Joey would walk to the bathroom in the middle of the night and caught his dad smiling and affectionately dusting all 20 of them, each said good night by name. Joey lightly knocked on the door, careful not to startle his father as he worked.

“Hey Dad.”

Without looking up, Mr. Pelter mumbled, “Hi son.”

Joey smiled and continued about his business. Joey’s room was unlike most boys’ room; neat and clean and without a single sock out of place, the only furnishings were a bed, nightstand and a bed in uniform black. On the walls, Joey had posters of old movies and replicas of major painting in frames. Joey began his afternoon routine by placing his bag on a chair near his door, replacing his shoes with slippers and changing into his home clothes.

“Leo wasn’t as ecstatic as I hoped,” Joey said to himself as he took the tin from his coat pocket. He put it on his desk and turned his computer on.

“Password? Mint condition, of course,” Joey logged in and clicked the notebook icon for today’s thoughts:

“Today is November 15th

Leo completed his collection of Monster Ball today! I’m going to his house tomorrow to have a look at it, so I hope mom will make her famous Snicker doodles!

Dad’s ’67 train is coming along well. He always says that trains are a real collection and I hope he gives me one of his. That would be awesome! He’s so dedicated to his work, like I want to be.

Sincerely, Joseph Pelter”

Joey logged out of the computer and began his homework like the good student he was until dinnertime, when his mother drove the family to the Grande Soiree so that she wouldn’t have to dirty her newly cleaned kitchen.

Early that Saturday morning, Joey bolted out of his bed and hurried to the bathroom to prepare for Leo’s unveiling. His father was still up from last night with the train while Joey could smell the cinnamon Snicker doodle cookies for Leo’s house. Dressing casual, yet neat, Joey zipped up his favorite blue sweater and belted his Velcro shoes before going out of his room to leave.

“Good morning, Mom,” Joey whispered as he slinked out of his room and tip-toed to the kitchen to avoid disturbing his father.

“Hello, son,” Mrs. Pelter bounced from behind the counter, he red polka-dot dress flaring around, “I have your snacks ready to go and it’s your favorite,” Mrs. Pelter kissed Joey on the head and handed him the container.

“Thanks, Mom,” Joey chirped happily. He couldn’t wait until he got to Leo’s house. He skipped as he thought of putting the Monster Ball games neatly away on shelves and eating the cookies.

Joey knocked on the window of Leo’s room and practically hopped in place on the porch to wait.

Leo sludged to the door, his eyes, not fully adjusted to being awake, opened to find Joey and a smile made from a dentist’s hard work.

“What are you doing here?” Leo said in a monotone voice.

“I’m here for the Monster Ball party, duh.”

“I know that, but why are you here so early? It’s not even nine,” Leo rubbed his eyes. His hair stuck up every which way.

“I got so excited; I just couldn’t wait one minute longer. Plus my mom made us snacks.”

Leo’s eyes perked, “Snicker doodle?”

“Our favorite.”

“Come on in. Just be quiet. My folks are still sleep.”

Joey bounced inside, “Aren’t you excited?”

“Yeah, but-” Leo’s words were drowned by his yawning. Taking the container, he put them in the kitchen. Joey sat down in the living room while Leo got ready.

Leo’s house differed from Joey’s. The Robson family were collectors like the Pelters, but instead of having complete collections on display, everything was thrown carelessly about and handled every way. Plus the collections were basically junk from the pawn shop Mr. Robson owned. Joey noticed the couch he was sitting on was the one Mr. Robson got from a storage auction a few years back.

Leo walked out of the room in lounge clothes and yawned as he sat next to Joey. Grabbing the remote, he turned on his Saturday cartoons.

“Aren’t we going to see your collection?”

“No. Not until Pirate Gordon goes off,” Leo said in a trance.

Joey sighed and slumped in his seat. He hated Pirate Gordon; however there no real reason why. Leo always said Joey only hated it because he was trying to act grown up and he might accidentally enjoy it. Also Pirate Gordon was the only show Joey had ever seen that didn’t have much merchandise to collect, except for the bedding that Leo owned. Today’s episode was about how Gordon’s first mate was learning to share. “Sharing is caring” was the main theme and frankly, Joey didn’t care. After an agonizing 45 minutes, the show was over. Joey jumped up and smiled broadly at Leo.

“Next?” he asked.

“Next is a cup of Joe.”

Joey’s eyebrows knitted together as he asked, “You drink coffee?”

Leo didn’t say anything; instead he shuffled to the kitchen and grabbed a bottle of Kangaroo Joe’s orange drink and poured it into a Super League’s glass. Joey couldn’t take the suspense. His breathing deepened and he didn’t remember when he folded his arms or began tapping his foot. Leo was normally calm in the morning, but this was a bit much.

“Ok, quit nagging me.”

In a very careless fashion, Leo threw the cup into the sink. Joey rushed over soon after to make sure it didn’t break. Although it wasn’t mint condition, that was still no excuse to treat it badly. Meanwhile, Leo started down the hallway to his room.

Joey was quite surprised to find that Leo had not prepared his room to display the Monster Ball collection. His bunk bed, top bed and bottom couch, was covered with clothes, some that looked cleaner than the dingy hoodie-jeans combo Leo had on now. Game systems crowded the TV and a tower of boxes hid behind Leo’s closet door.

“Here, let me move this and that,” Leo pushed the clothes from the couch to the floor for Joey and began pulling out the boxes, “Here is the moment you have waited 2 years for. I present my Monster Ball game collection!”

Leo grabbed his scissors to open the first box, which contained a handheld game console and the very first Monster Ball video game.

“Mint condition,” Joey speechlessly whispered. He gingerly picked up the game and held it like a newborn baby.

“When you’re finished hand it over, okay?” Leo rolled his eyes and turned his attention to the console. Picking it up, he started opening the package, producing a sound Joey never heard before.

The ancient box popped open, swirling dust in its new owner’s face.

Joey came out of the game induced trance to see the console box on the floor and Leo holding the system in his hands.

“What are you doing?” Joey asked.

“I’m opening my new Monster Ball game system. What did it look like?”

“You did what?” Joey slowly stood up and his eyes widened, exposing his bright green eyes.

His palms grew sweaty and he began to breathe heavily, not in a displeasing way like before. This time it was hyperventilation.

“You broke it,” Joey whispered.

Leo looked down at the console, “it looks fine to me.”

“No, no, no,” Joey shook his head, “you broke the first rule of collecting.”

“What’s that?” Leo asked flatly.

“You don’t know?!” Joey’s shock changed gears. His voice cracked as his eyebrows displayed anger.

“Calm down, Joe. I told you my parents are still sleep.”

“Calm down?! You just broke the first law of collecting and you don’t even know what it is! Rule one: Never open the package! It’s so simple!”

“Then what’s the use of having this stuff if you’re not going to enjoy it?”

“You want to play with it? That’s just stupid!”

“No, what’s stupid is buying something you never play with like those baseball card tins. I bet the cards are nothing but junk, but you’ll never know because you won’t open them!”

Joey growled as he stormed out of the room. Leo’s dad, Mr. Robson, met him by the kitchen, bewildered and sleepy.

“What’s the hub-bub, boys?”

Joey stared at the man resembling a 6 foot Leo. They shared the wild hair, droopy brown eyes and slouchy look.

“Leo opened the package of the Limited edition Monster Ball game console,” Joey thought Mr. Robson would care, but he didn’t even blink.

Joey continued out the door and down the cul-de-sac. His father wasn’t home, so he didn’t have to sneak by, although he wouldn’t have anyway. Leo did the unspeakable action of opening a mint condition item for fun! Sitting in his desk chair, he noticed the game was still in his hands. Thankfully, it wasn’t damaged, as Joey would have gone into another rage.

Instead he held it close to his chest, repeatedly whispering, “Its okay. You’re safe here.”

As he sat, the room began to fade in to a grey memory of little Joey standing at the doorpost of his father’s collection room. Mr. Pelter was so engrossed into painting his 1980 Christmas train, he didn’t notice his son reaching out for one of the display trains until it fell on the ground.

“Ouch!” Little Joey yelped as the train bounced off his head and on the floor.


Joey turned to his dad and smiled.

“I’m okay, Daddy.”

Mr. Pelter rushed to the floor to recover the train from the floor.

“You have to be careful son. You could have severely damaged it.”

“Is it special?” little Joey asked.

Mr. Pelter sighed lightly and picked Joey up and sat him on his lap at his desk, eye level to his current project.

“Joseph, these trains aren’t toys. They’re history, artifacts and precious. Their sole purpose is to stay in their containers, untouched and valuable. If disturbed, it will lose all purpose and will be worth nothing. This is my purpose, a collector’s purpose: to preserve and protect history.”

“Can I protect something too?”

“Sure you can. When you find something you hold dear, you will gain the same passion I have for these trains and will fight for it.”

Stargazing with Patience

Stargazing is amazing. I love it and I can stay outside for hours if I’m not paying attention. I have been interested in astronomy since I was about 5 years old, and when I was 10, I was given my first telescope. I’ve read books, searched articles, and nearly memorized over half of the constellations, along with their stories and origins.

However, when it comes to putting all that knowledge to work, I am quite a notice. For the past days, I have been trying to find Neptune with my binoculars, as I heard it can be seen under the right conditions. using my trusty StarWalk2 app, I knew Neptune was located in the constellation of Aquarius. For a while, I thought I was looking at Aquarius when actually I was looking at Fomalhaut, the brightest star in the constellation of Piscis Australis, the southern fish.

The name caption for Fomalhaut is a bit faded.

I kinda felt embarrassed when I found my mistake, but then I had to remember that we are always learning, no matter what age or education level. I’m very happy I found my error because now I can learn from it and it puts me on the right track to continue my quest to find Neptune, or at least Aquarius.

Now, this blog was meant to be a writing blog, or rather a blog about a writer. I talk about stargazing a lot, but writing and stargazing are very similar. Both are not easy and require patience to get right. While we are searching for our Aquarius, we sometimes end up focusing on a Fomalhaut, and it may be discouraging, but understand that the Fomalhaut you found (or the story you’ve been trying to get out) was not a waste of time and it will help you find your Aquarius. I have written quite a few stories that turn up not being very good, but it has helped me become a better writer as I learned what worked and what doesn’t. Also just because you didn’t write what you wanted, that doesn’t mean you didn’t write something meaningful. Fomalhaut is one of the brightest stars in the night sky, so it’s no small fry, and maybe you ended up writing something really special.

P.S. Speaking of fish, I’m getting hungry.

Net Neutrality

I am usually an optimistic person, and I believe that the internet will be free for all to enjoy. I believe Congress can unite on this issue and make things right for the American people. I call my senators and while it is depressing in how much they never listen to their constituents, I think in this we are united.

I wrote this not as a poem, but as some thoughts and what the internet means to me. There are too many to list and hopefully, we will make things right.

Pleiades, Binoculars, and Exam Scores

Sometimes I think I am a terrible blogger as I do not update when I should. But then I think about all that has happened lately and the excitement I have to share it with you. Since the last time we spoke, I have obtained some excellent night time binoculars, perfect for the astronomer beginner or someone who cannot afford a telescope, much like myself.

With my binoculars, the first thing I set out to see the next morning was the Moon. It was also the first thing I ever saw when I had a telescope as a child. I slept a little too much and missed seeing Mars and Jupiter, but the Moon was a pleasant sight. That night, I set out to see the Pleiades. I first saw this star cluster the Monday after the SuperMoon and it was a stunning sight as I first thought it was an alien spaceship. (I know… I know… ) Seeing the Pleiades was amazing. I had only seen it from beautiful pictures able to capture their sapphire-like radiance, but it was just as amazing to see those seven brilliant sisters.

Another reason for my absence is the fact I was studying for the Miller Analogies Test (MAT) for graduate school admission. I spoke about this in my last post, Library Dreams, and while I do not know whether or not I will be accepted, I do have and am very happy with my test scores.


I’m very happy with this result and, hopefully, the graduate panel will be as well.

I’m not really sure how to end this post, but I guess I will end it with a picture I tried to take of the early morning sky.

Date: December 11, 2017, 6:32 am

(What I was looking for VS. What I was able to capture- More on that next time!!)